Comments on: How do you get back your bully status in primary school? http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school Fri, 10 Feb 2012 12:37:33 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Harry H http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4991 Harry H Mon, 01 Feb 2010 20:34:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4991 OK... i dont mean so sound rude, but what the "beep" is wrong with you? You actually want you son to be a bully again? What kind of a mother are you if you want your own son to pick on other kids for the pleasure? Your son gets what he deserves since he was a bully. Im sure all those kids he used to pick on are laughing at your son. Hurting others will come to bite you back.<br><b>References : </b><br> OK… i dont mean so sound rude, but what the "beep" is wrong with you? You actually want you son to be a bully again?
What kind of a mother are you if you want your own son to pick on other kids for the pleasure?
Your son gets what he deserves since he was a bully. Im sure all those kids he used to pick on are laughing at your son.
Hurting others will come to bite you back.
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]]> By: Rosa http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4990 Rosa Mon, 01 Feb 2010 20:29:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4990 That is a very selfish thinking. Instead of discouraging, you are encouraging bullying? Everyone should live harmoniously, instead of splitting into bullies, the ones being bullied, and bystanders who condone the behavior.<br><b>References : </b><br> That is a very selfish thinking. Instead of discouraging, you are encouraging bullying?

Everyone should live harmoniously, instead of splitting into bullies, the ones being bullied, and bystanders who condone the behavior.
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]]> By: bbk http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4989 bbk Mon, 01 Feb 2010 20:12:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4989 glad youre not my parent<br><b>References : </b><br> glad youre not my parent
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]]> By: Ken H http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4988 Ken H Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:47:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4988 Help him to start a gang, but them some tough-looking clothes, and show him how to intimidate the weaker kids. He'll soon regain the respect of his classmates.<br><b>References : </b><br> Help him to start a gang, but them some tough-looking clothes, and show him how to intimidate the weaker kids. He’ll soon regain the respect of his classmates.
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]]> By: EmErIcAnMiLiTiA http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4987 EmErIcAnMiLiTiA Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:28:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4987 Get both yourself and your son psychiatric help immediately.<br><b>References : </b><br> Get both yourself and your son psychiatric help immediately.
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]]> By: Seriously? http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4986 Seriously? Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:23:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4986 What about teaching him to love/respect himself as well as others. Things just work out better that way. Both him being the bully and the kid being bullied are signs that he is unhappy with himself. You need to help him work out the problems he has with himself 1st and the other stuff will just fall into place.<br><b>References : </b><br> What about teaching him to love/respect himself as well as others. Things just work out better that way. Both him being the bully and the kid being bullied are signs that he is unhappy with himself. You need to help him work out the problems he has with himself 1st and the other stuff will just fall into place.
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]]> By: rskarma http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4985 rskarma Mon, 01 Feb 2010 18:45:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4985 A lot of bullies do what they do because they are insecure and upset with their life at home. So think to yourself.. what caused your sons previous "status"? What kind of mother have you been and are you being?<br><b>References : </b><br> A lot of bullies do what they do because they are insecure and upset with their life at home.

So think to yourself.. what caused your sons previous "status"?
What kind of mother have you been and are you being?
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]]> By: S!annii-x http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4984 S!annii-x Mon, 01 Feb 2010 18:22:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4984 Why on earth do you want your child to be a bully? Bullies ruin children's' lives, and can lead to depression, and in some serious cases, suicide. Bullies are ignorant to other children's suffering, and just want to exert their authority because of insecurity. I myself was bullied when I was in the lower primary school years, and they were the worst years of my life. I absolutely hated my life, all because one person was making it a misery. Do you really want your child to take part in causing pain to another child or threatening them mentally? That is horrible.<br><b>References : </b><br> Why on earth do you want your child to be a bully?

Bullies ruin children’s’ lives, and can lead to depression, and in some serious cases, suicide. Bullies are ignorant to other children’s suffering, and just want to exert their authority because of insecurity.

I myself was bullied when I was in the lower primary school years, and they were the worst years of my life. I absolutely hated my life, all because one person was making it a misery. Do you really want your child to take part in causing pain to another child or threatening them mentally?

That is horrible.
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]]> By: jayni http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4983 jayni Mon, 01 Feb 2010 18:12:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4983 ok, even though i disagree with your view, I understand where you're coming from. He's your son. It's better to be the one doing the hurting rather than to be the one who hurts right? But what about all the victims' mothers? How do you think THEY feel about THEIR sons being bullied? Not a heck of a lot better than you're feeling right now. Have you thought of counselling for your son? People don't just start inflicting pain on others for the hell of it...it might seem that way but it usually goes a lot deeper than that. Maybe he has some insecurity problems, is feeling neglected or something like that. Try spending more time with him if you can and maybe he'll open up to you. And i know you don't want to hear this but this experience might be good for him to be the victim for once instead of the bully, just to see what it feels like. Maybe having experienced it, he might not be so eager to do it again. On the other hand, having been the victim, it would just encourage him that being 'on top' (as a bully) is the way to go so really, the best thing to do is stop this is whole cycle and find out why he was bullying kids in the first place. <br><b>References : </b><br> ok, even though i disagree with your view, I understand where you’re coming from. He’s your son. It’s better to be the one doing the hurting rather than to be the one who hurts right?

But what about all the victims’ mothers? How do you think THEY feel about THEIR sons being bullied? Not a heck of a lot better than you’re feeling right now.

Have you thought of counselling for your son? People don’t just start inflicting pain on others for the hell of it…it might seem that way but it usually goes a lot deeper than that. Maybe he has some insecurity problems, is feeling neglected or something like that.

Try spending more time with him if you can and maybe he’ll open up to you. And i know you don’t want to hear this but this experience might be good for him to be the victim for once instead of the bully, just to see what it feels like. Maybe having experienced it, he might not be so eager to do it again. On the other hand, having been the victim, it would just encourage him that being ‘on top’ (as a bully) is the way to go so really, the best thing to do is stop this is whole cycle and find out why he was bullying kids in the first place.
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]]> By: cathrl69 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school/comment-page-1#comment-4982 cathrl69 Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:33:59 +0000 http://www.soominkim.com/primary-school/how-do-you-get-back-your-bully-status-in-primary-school#comment-4982 Oh look, a troll.<br><b>References : </b><br> Oh look, a troll.
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